When Queens Ride By, a short story by Agnes Slight Turnbull, is a touching short vintage story of what can happen when a woman takes a moment to add a bit of beauty to her life.

It’s a bit homemaking, a bit beauty advice, a touch vintage and you can pick up a free copy on the Living on a Dime website here.

I love reading short stories from times past. There seems to be more detail, more about what is going on inside the person’s head from a third person sort of view.

And if you want to know how Jennie Muscgrave got on in later years Suzanne Chanis has continued the story here. Go to the archive and start at the beginning.

What bride does not think long and hard when it comes to the designs of her wedding invitations. Today the choices for invitations are so numerous I think it would be most difficult to come to a decision. Only 13 years ago when planning my own nuptuals I felt dismay as to whether to have a little gauze ribbon at the top or not and as to which shade of cream would most reflect the whole theme of our wedding. Alas we did choose an elegant cream invitation with a gold filgree border and raised lettering.

But what of the vintage bride. You can imagine that selections were limited. Here is some advice for the bride of 1905

The invitations for a wedding are engraved in script or Old English,

printed on double sheets of heavy lustreless white paper, which fold once to fit the envelope.

This envelope is addressed with the full name of the person to whom it is to be sent, and slipped into another envelope of thinner paper, which is addressed in full, stamped and mailed.

It is not an opportunity for small economies. Each person invited must have an invitation addressed to himself or herself.

A single envelope directed to Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Norton and family is not in good taste.

Of course one envelope only is used for husband and wife.

When there are two or three members of one family to be invited the envelopes to the invitation proper can all ‘be slipped into one of the thinner ones and that addressed to the mother of the family as its representative head, “

~The Homemaker, Her Science

It is lovely add a vintage touch to your wedding. One may wonder what the styles and traditions of certain eras were. Here we touch on the Vintage Wedding Dress

Vintage Bride

Prairie Bride: The vintage woman most often wore, not a creation of white but, her best dress, for her wedding. This  dress was put into continued use until it wore out and was used as rags for cleaning.

Victorian Bride: It was the wedding of Queen Victoria to her beloved Prince Albert that brought white wedding dresses into vogue. But it was still a dress limited to the well off unless your rented or borrowed.

Edwardian Bride: The Edwardian bride continued with the mode of the white wedding dress but now with a more elaborate touch. Silhouettes were more relaxed and hems rose. Here is an example of a lovely Edwardian styled wedding dress the bride reconstructed from an original. The entire wedding is period style and may give you some wonderful ideas.

WWI: With the onset of World War 1 fabric was at a premium and the shorter (above the ankles) wedding dress came into vogue.

1920’s: The 20’s, the era of the flapper, saw the wedding dress start to be constructed loosely as many fashions were that day. The hem was also still short and weddings took on a more casual air.

1930’s: World War 2 saw many brides construct wedding dresses from salvaged parachutes due to the lack of available wedding dress material.  It also saw many brides married in their best dress or suit as often the wedding was last minute such as when the groom had leave. The hem of the dress also moved back down to graze the floor.

1940’s: After the war the fantasy of the dream bride was back in full force. White wedding gowns and all the trimmings.

Excellent Resource for Putting Together Your Own Vintage Wedding

Ah Mother’s Day! Proclaimed for national observance on May 8, 1914 by United States President Woodrow Wilson Mother’s Day evolved to a holiday to be celebrated annually on the second Sunday in May.

What was begun by Julia Ward Howe as a call to mother’s to work for the peace their son’s had fought for in the Civil War was carried on by Anna M. Jarvis to create a national holiday for mother’s everywhere.

Today Mother’s Day is big business but let us turn again to the women who make this day so special…

“The mother’s heart is the child’s first school-room…
MotherTo the mother belongs the privilege of planting in the hearts of her children those seeds of love, which, nurtured and fostered, will bear the fruit of earnest and useful lives. It is she who must fit them to meet the duties and emergencies of life, and in this work of training she keeps her heart fresh and young, and thereby insures the growth of those powers with which nature has endowed her.”

~The Manners, Conduct and Dress of the Most Refined Society

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“A mother’s love –how sweet the name!

What is a mother’s love?

A noble, pure, and tender flame,

Enkindled from above,

To bless a heart of earthly mold;

The warmest love that can grow cold:–

This is a mother’s love.”

~J Montgomery