Giving Thanks for What We Have

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“If, deep in our hears, we are grateful in proportion to the good that is ours, then we are sure to know a kind of Peace and Thanksgiving that can make us kin to all the world.”
~Mary Brooks Picken, 1924

This is a quote beginning the November chapter of my Vintage Notions: An Inspirational Guide to Needlework, Cooking, Sewing, Fashion and Fun book by Amy Barickman

Thanksgiving is upon us. It’s a wonderful reminder to be thankful of all that good that we have. Not comparing our good to others but to look upon what we as an individual have been blessed with and known/

~Happy Thanksgiving

Vintage Style Thanksgiving Decorations

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Aren’t these lovely?

Vintage Thanksgiving decorations for your home. The style is deliciously vintage.

These are created by Betsy at B.Nute Productions and hosted at Catch My Party.

Housekeeping vs. Homemaking

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A small treatise on what it means to keep a home. The gist of it is that the people in the home are more important than the things.


WHAT is good housekeeping?

One feels tempted in answering this question to paraphrase Plato’s definition of a “good education” with the following result: Good housekeeping is that which gives to the home, and the members of the household, the greatest perfection and happiness of which they are capable.

To most of us the words “good housekeeping” mean simply the keeping of the house in perfect order and the prompt serving of well cooked meals. Is this all the words signify?

Let us go into a well kept house for a few minutes.

…a dainty reception room. The shades are half way drawn in order to keep things from fading and also to give a subdued light. There are attractive rugs on the polished floor, quantities of bric a brac on the mantel; one log carefully adjusted on the finely burnished andirons and beneath it a neatly swept hearth. There are dainty gilt chairs scattered about the room and everything is immaculate.

The few books in neat piles on the corner tables look as if they had never made friends with anyone, in fact as if there were no one there who would sympathize with them, were they to open their hearts.

A person might have gone through the entire house, found the same neatness everywhere and still have gone away, feeling that it was not a real home or that people were not particularly happy there.

What was lacking?

Certainly order is Heaven’s first law and conducive to the happiness of a household.

To order one’s house well is simply to place things in their proper relation. We must constantly remember that the house was made for man; not man for the house.

This order, or placing of things in their proper relation must extend to every portion and member of the household; otherwise though our house be swept and garnished from top to bottom, it will be full of unhappiness.

It is much more indicative of poor housekeeping to have the baby pale from lack of sunshine than to have every carpet in the house faded. It denotes much better management to set a simple table where things are wholesome and appetizing than to ruin our children’s stomachs…with rich food.

If we have this just adaptation of parts to each other, our home life will rise in a beautiful harmony– a tribute to God, who has given us its possibilities, a blessing to the community, and an inspiration to everyone who enters our doors.

~The American Kitchen Magazine, Volume 3 p.165

Making A Happy Home

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Home-making, like the other arts, is with some an inborn gift,- the secret of making others happy, of conferring blessings, of scattering the sunny largesse of love everywhere, is as natural to some as to breathe. Such sweet souls are to be envied, as are those whose happy lot it is to dwell with them. But, at the same time, perhaps they are not so deserving of our admiration and respect as some who, in order to confer happiness on others, themselves undergo what is to them mental and moral privation, who day by day have to keep a curb on themselves in order to crucify the “natural man.”

It is possible, even for some whom Nature has not endowed with her loveliest gifts, to cultivate that spirit in which is hidden the whole secret of home happiness. It is the spirit of unselfishness. No selfish man or woman has the power to make a happy home.

~Courtship and Marriage

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